[whataretheysaying] Mary Madigan: hugs and kisses

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Posted by Mary Madigan:
hugs and kisses
http://whataretheysaying.powerblogs.com/posts/1180825296.shtml


   As part of my daughter's prom night preparations, I took her to the
   spa for a treat - a facial for her and a massage for me. I haven't had
   one in years, since I left Cape May mostly because of the trepidation
   that comes with going to a new spa. According to [1]Dr. Helen,
   [2]kinesthesia, the power of touch, is as important as skill:

     The other day I went to get a massage and the regular female
     massage therapist I usually saw was out; I was presented with a
     male therapist which was fine. I have no qualms about the sex of
     the massage therapist as long as they are good. However, I did
     notice that although the massage was technically very good, it just
     did not feel "right" to me. Afterwards, I tried to think about what
     it was that bothered me and hoped that I was not some type of
     sexist who just didn't want a male therapist. But that wasn't it. I
     realized that it has more to do with the body type of the person
     and the kinesthetic feel of their hands and touch...

   Touch is important in a lot of ways. When my kids were little, if I
   gave them a hug, even if (or especially if) I felt the urge to yell at
   them, I'd feel better towards them after the hug. They'd usually
   settle down too. When they were sick, hugs were close to a miracle
   cure. Sure it's a whifty idea, but if it works..

   ..and the massage was great.

References

   1. http://drhelen.blogspot.com/2007/05/power-of-touch.html
   2. http://www.seablogger.com/?p=7829